Becoming Parents in Paris: Our Co-Founders’ Experience

by | Aug 13, 2021 | Family services

Being a parent isn’t easy…

nonetheless when you’re raising a family in a foreign country! Trust us, we know all about it. Your Friend in Paris co-founders, Justyna and David Simmons, are proud expat parents to their Polish-American 3 ½ year-old twins, Edward and Olivia. Their knowledge and expertise come from years of their first-hand experience dealing with and learning the ins & outs of the French childcare system, which allows them to provide high quality and professional services to other expat parents and families in the Paris region & beyond!

Here’s a

Q&A with Justyna & David

where they discuss their own personal experience with raising a family as expat parents in Paris:

QuestionWhen did you both move to Paris?

Justyna & David: I (Justyna) initially moved to Paris in 2007, after which I left for a few years and then came back in 2013, when I was 7 months pregnant with our twins. I (David) moved to Paris in 2009, when I established Your Friend in Paris.

QuestionHow old are your twins? What are their names?

Justyna & DavidOur twins are named Edward & Olivia, and they’re 3 ½ years old.

QuestionWere your children born in France or elsewhere?

Justyna & David: They were born in France.

QuestionWhere did you give birth & what was your experience?

Justyna & DavidI (Justyna) gave birth to Olivia & Edward in a public hospital. I had a wonderful experience – I even had cheese, baguettes, and a hot chocolate waiting for me after I had given birth! I gave birth in a single room, the hospital was very clean, and the staff were amazing. Any time one of the doctors or nurses needed to do something, they made sure to bring all the equipment in the room, so my kids never left my sight. Not only that, but the medical staff was extremely attentive & they checked on me fairly often.

QuestionWhich childcare option(s) did you choose for the twins?

Justyna & DavidWe originally planned on sending the twins to créche, but we ended up hiring a nanny in the end.

QuestionWhy did you pick those option(s) versus the others?

Justyna & DavidUnfortunately not only were we denied from créche (even though we had been promised that we would be given priority), but we also would have had to pay fees for each child, whereas with our nanny we pay her a salary, versus fees for both kids individually.

QuestionWhat was your experience going through the créche application process?

Justyna & David: We applied to public créches only because we assumed that the private ones would be too expensive, but in reality, private créches can be the same cost as public ones if you take advantage of the benefits from the government.

QuestionWhat lessons did you learn for both the créche and nanny hiring process?

Justyna & David: If you know how the system works, the system is not only manageable, but it’s easy to navigate. The biggest problem though is that you need to know the rules (which are not always obvious and/or logical).

QuestionHow does the childcare system in France differ from Poland or the US?

Justyna & David: Childcare in France is much more accessible, cheaper & better. Everything is all about positive discipline, Montessori, and the natural development of the child. Our kids dine on organic food – we joke that Edward & Olivia’s palates are more developed than ours at this point!

Source: Jaspe, Canva

Hopefully you found the nuggets of wisdom from Justyna and David to be helpful for you and your family as you navigate the unknown waters of the French childcare system. If you’d like to speak with our experts one-on-one about your family’s specific needs for childcare, schedule your free 30-minute consultation today!


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We are expats that have been living in France for a combined 31 years. We are expats that have faced the challenges that you have and ones you’ve never even thought of.

We are your friends to lend you a helping hand and put you on the path to success in Paris. Whether it concerns coming, living or leaving we are a group dedicated to making life as easy as possible!


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